DATE: 2021-06-19
AO: Farm
Q: Infinity
PAX: Matthew – Running Man
FNGs: None
COUNT: 2
Warm up: Don Quixotes, Cherry Pickers, Michael Phelps, LBACs, Copperhead Squats, Frankenstein Walk, and Skips.
The Thang: Resistance Band HIIT – Juneteenth format
Arrange coupon blocks on one side of the field and resistance bands on the other. On each side of the field, perform 19 reps of the following with a resistance band and coupon, sprinting 75m back and forth between exercises: Derkins on bench / Merkins with band
Lunges (left) (with coupon / with band)
Bent Over Rows (with coupon / with band)
Lunges (right) (with coupon / with band)
Shoulder Presses (with coupon / with band)
Squats (with coupon / with band)
Reverse Merkins / Squat Band pull-aparts
Thrusters (with coupon / with band)
Arm Curls (with coupon / with band)
Mary: 19 reps of the following: Flutter Kicks IC, Penguin Crunches IC, American Hammers IC, Nolan Ryans, and 30s Elbow Plank hold.
CoT: Thoughts on Fatherhood When You Feel Like a Failure
1. Recognize that “perfect” is a myth.
2. Be wisely transparent. It’s good to admit mistakes and apologize as a masculine father.
3. Beware of self-pity. Self-pity adopts a posture of helpless self-indulgence. Part of successful fathering is having “other-focus,” a mentality that intentionally leverages “my strength and resources for your benefit.” Beware of excessive self-absorption and self-pity that robs us of the outward expression of love.
4. Watch where you get your identity. Are you worried about them or what others think (or would think) about this situation? Seek their betterment.
5. Move toward your kids. You just have to hug your kids, stay curious about their lives, and strike up a conversation rather than retreating into fearful silence. Children need their dads regardless of what Dad is feeling about himself on the inside.
